Choosing to thrive

March 11, 2025

Craig Bar­nett on UK meet­ings that are attract­ing new­com­ers: “New­com­ers need to be made wel­come, includ­ing chil­dren. They need to find peo­ple who enjoy spend­ing time togeth­er, who are open about their spir­i­tu­al expe­ri­ence, and will­ing to share the rich­es of the Quak­er way with them. They need to expe­ri­ence Quak­er wor­ship that is expec­tant and gath­ered, where peo­ple take the risk of open­ness to the Spir­it that leads to deep and vul­ner­a­ble spo­ken ministry.”

Still looking for articles on the 400th anniversary of George Fox’s birth

March 11, 2025

The June/July _Friends Journal_ will look at Quak­er founder George Fox at 400. We haven’t got­ten a lot of arti­cles yet so we’ve extend­ed the dead­line and are beat­ing the bush­es (well, the socials) for prospec­tive writ­ers. Maybe I have only myself to blame, as my call for sub­mis­sions won­dered whether this was an appro­pri­ate topic:

> Still, there’s a very good ques­tion to be asked (and per­haps an arti­cle to be writ­ten) about whether we should be mak­ing this kind of a fuss for George Fox.

Despite that, I think there’s a good pur­pose to look­ing back like this and hope there’s some arti­cles in their pipeline to send to us by March 25th. 

How do we use money?

March 11, 2025

The newest Friends Jour­nal issue is out, look­ing at how we use mon­ey. It’s per­haps not the sex­i­est top­ic but it speaks to what we val­ue as a body of believ­ers. Are we focused on our inter­nal group or on the world out­side our walls? Some­times the dis­cus­sions around mon­ey are tedious and our deci­sions self-evident. I think it’s pos­si­ble for a meet­ing to spend too much time focused on its own self-management. But there are times when dis­cus­sions of resource use brings out sur­pris­ing inspiration. 

Claire Flourish examines a Quaker anti-trans campaign

March 11, 2025

Fas­ci­nat­ing and dis­turb­ing account of an out­spo­ken Quak­er* UK anti-trans activist who has start­ed a video pod­cast inter­view­ing promi­nent Friends. Most of the episodes have noth­ing to do with gen­der and sex­u­al­i­ty but some do. 

The aster­isk up is there because the pod­cast­er appar­ent­ly renounced their mem­ber­ship in the Soci­ety of Friends when Britain Year­ly Meet­ing passed a minute on trans inclu­sion. I appre­ci­ate some­one dis­agree­ing with a year­ly meet­ing res­o­lu­tion and even stay­ing in the fold despite the oppo­si­tion. But when an affirm­ing minute that doesn’t actu­al­ly affect you (just your ide­ol­o­gy) is such a bur­den that you leave… well then the ques­tion is why you would put such effort into a pod­cast of your ex-religion. it doesn’t seem like a project borne in good faith. 

Claire does a great job bring­ing the receipts and explain­ing the con­text (the details of which I haven’t been following). 

Reading: George Fox – the First Quaker Socialist?

March 11, 2025

Gra­ham Tay­lor with a well-cited arti­cle on the proto-socialism of ear­ly Friends. There’s a bit of anachro­nis­tic think­ing going on here, which he admits to. But it’s also the case that a lot of Quak­er his­to­ry is viewed through the lens of lat­er Quak­ers and often ignores what was hap­pen­ing out­side of Quak­erism at the time. This can lead to bad his­to­ries. I’m not sure I buy some of Tay­lor’s argu­ments but it’s a good exer­cise and Fox cer­tain­ly did talk about eco­nom­ics as part of his call for justice.

Where Do We Find Our Hope?

March 11, 2025

Decem­ber’s Friends Jour­nal is online and looks at Spir­i­tu­al Opti­mism vs. Spir­i­tu­al Pessimism. 

> Has there ever been an age in human his­to­ry in which we could be pure­ly opti­mistic or pure­ly pes­simistic? Quak­er founder George Fox wrote that his min­istry arose “when all my hopes in [preach­ers and expe­ri­enced peo­ple] were gone, so that I had noth­ing out­ward­ly to help me, nor could tell what to do.” He famous­ly found inspi­ra­tion, guid­ance, and courage in “one, even Christ Jesus,” who could speak to his con­di­tion. What keeps us going today in a world always ready to implode or blossom?

REVIEWED: A Friend in Deed: The Life of Henry Stanley Newman

March 11, 2025

I very occa­sion­al­ly do a book review for the mag­a­zine. My col­league Gail thought I might be inter­est­ed in this biog­ra­phy of the longest-serving edi­tor of our British coun­ter­part, “The Friend.” 

The part of Hen­ry Stan­ley New­man’s life that I found most fas­ci­nat­ing was his generation’s abil­i­ty to bend tech­ni­cal­i­ties almost to the break­ing point in order to main­tain for­mal uni­ty. As a young man, he rebelled against the stodgy and insu­lar Quak­erism of his upbring­ing and found a way to cre­ate a par­al­lel spir­i­tu­al life based on evan­gel­i­cal prin­ci­ples. In mid­dle life, estab­lished and respect­ed, he faced chal­lenges from the younger lib­er­als and man­aged to stay engaged and keep them with­in the fold. In the Unit­ed States, these same ten­den­cies toward first evan­gel­i­cal and then lib­er­al the­olo­gies both result­ed in schisms, many of which still divide Friends here. 

Almost twen­ty years ago I vis­it­ed a small Mid­west­ern U.S. year­ly meet­ing that real­ly felt like a fam­i­ly, both in its bonds and its dys­func­tions. I liked it. One of the most respect­ed mem­bers was gay and at some point ear­li­er he was nom­i­nat­ed to be the year­ly meet­ing clerk. This was a non-starter for a mem­ber church that also affil­i­at­ed with an Evan­gel­i­cal year­ly meet­ing. After some back and forth he was was approved as an assis­tant clerk, a solu­tion every­one could live with. Log­i­cal­ly it makes absolute­ly no sense — if gay­ness pre­cludes one from one year­ly meet­ing posi­tion it should for any. But the year­ly meet­ing want­ed him and knew he’d be good in lead­er­ship and found a way to make it work and he cheer­ful­ly accept­ed the sit­u­a­tion. (The sit­u­a­tion didn’t last and the dual-affiliated meet­ing even­tu­al­ly had to make a choice and dis­af­fil­i­ate from one of its year­ly meetings.) 

There’s an impulse toward puri­ty that woudn’t have allowed these kinds of nego­ti­at­ed com­pro­mis­es. A young New­man, start­ing Evan­gel­i­cal orga­ni­za­tions left and right that were nom­i­nal­ly out­side of Quak­er struc­ture but full of Quak­ers, would have been dis­owned. The Mid­west year­ly meet­ing would have splin­tered over an insis­tence of a clerk sta­tus. I cer­tain­ly under­stand puri­ty: some­times we need to make a stand. But some­times it’s more impor­tant to be a log­i­cal­ly incon­sis­tent fam­i­ly than to be alone in our cor­rect­ness. Hen­ry Stan­ley Newman’s com­pro­mis­es is an inter­est­ing mod­el for us, still.

Miracles with Diane Allen

March 11, 2025

About thir­ty Friends came togeth­er at Crop­well Friends on Sun­day to hear about mir­a­cles from Diane Allen. Allen is well known as a for­mer Philadel­phia TV anchor and for long ser­vice in the New Jer­sey State Sen­ate. She is also a Quak­er who wor­ships at near­by Mt. Lau­rel Meeting.