How do we use money?

January 2, 2025

The newest Friends Jour­nal issue is out, look­ing at how we use mon­ey. It’s per­haps not the sex­i­est top­ic but it speaks to what we val­ue as a body of believ­ers. Are we focused on our inter­nal group or on the world out­side our walls? Some­times the dis­cus­sions around mon­ey are tedious and our deci­sions self-evident. I think it’s pos­si­ble for a meet­ing to spend too much time focused on its own self-management. But there are times when dis­cus­sions of resource use brings out sur­pris­ing inspiration.

First up in our fea­tures is Joann Neu­roth’s “Putting Our Mon­ey Where Our Hearts Are,” a look at how her meet­ing in Lans­ing, Michi­gan, took seem­ing­ly tiny steps that have grown into sig­nifi­ant com­mu­ni­ty out­reach and investment.

When we catch our breath to add it all up, we real­ize that the vol­un­teers who “feed the pantry” dai­ly have put $11,000 of food in that box each year. It feels a bit like loaves and fish­es! Where did it come from, one gro­cery bag at a time? We are pret­ty sure any­one propos­ing an $11,000 pro­gram back in 2020 would have been quick­ly set straight about lim­its to our capac­i­ty. But one can of soup at a time, we have tru­ly sur­prised ourselves.

The Quaker Twitter eXodus

December 18, 2024

New Friends Jour­nal arti­cle on some of the Quak­er groups leav­ing Twitter/X this week, fol­low­ing Friends World Com­mit­tee’s Mon­day announce­ment.

There’s been a lit­tle push­back, on X and Red­dit, along the lines that Quak­ers should be rep­re­sent­ed every­where. Our arti­cle quotes Alis­tair McIn­tosh, who post­ed on X:

I pre­fer it when Quak­ers bring an alter­na­tive pres­ence to con­flict zones. Has God not already got suf­fi­cient angels in heav­en? Can we not, as our 1947 Nobel Peace Prize cita­tion quotes it, act “to build up in a spir­it of love what has been destroyed in a spir­it of hatred.”

I get it but I don’t think the metaphor holds. No one is trapped on a social network. 

One prob­lem with this line of rea­son­ing is that it fails to take into account the time and resources that it takes to be on a social plat­form. Face­book, X, Threads, Bluesky, Dis­cord, Tik­tok, Telegram, What­sApp, Red­dit, Mastodon… There are so many social net­works and you can’t be every­where. As a pub­lish­er, you have to choose where you place your atten­tion. X has shot itself in the foot time and time again since Musk came in. He has no idea how to run a social network.

The qual­i­ty of dis­course at X had turned to shit. Much of the audi­ence is gone. Posts with links are down­grad­ed in the algo­rithm, giv­ing pub­lish­ers lit­tle incen­tive to stay. For most pub­lish­ers, the main pur­pose of social net­works is to get peo­ple to their web­sites (hope­ful­ly to sign up for email lists). X is fol­low­ing the lead of Meta (Face­book, Threads, Insta­gram), whose net­works have become increas­ing­ly use­less as they’ve down­grad­ed posts with links.

Many pubs are report­ing they’re now get­ting more refer­ral vis­i­tors from Bluesky than X, even with few­er fol­low­ers. For me, this announce­ment is less about pol­i­tics than it is a recog­ni­tion that X isn’t Twit­ter and that the enshit­ti­fi­ca­tion of the net­work is such that it’s no longer worth our lim­it­ed resources or attention.

When Friends World Com­mit­tee’s World Office came to us and said that a bunch of Quak­er orgs were orga­niz­ing to leave X en masse, I respond­ed with a shrug. It has­n’t felt worth it to stay on X. This is as good a time as ever to leave. Friends Jour­nal has been on Bluesky for over a year and the dis­course is sim­ply better. 

Reading: George Fox – the First Quaker Socialist?

December 2, 2024

Gra­ham Tay­lor with a well-cited arti­cle on the proto-socialism of ear­ly Friends. There’s a bit of anachro­nis­tic think­ing going on here, which he admits to. But it’s also the case that a lot of Quak­er his­to­ry is viewed through the lens of lat­er Quak­ers and often ignores what was hap­pen­ing out­side of Quak­erism at the time. This can lead to bad his­to­ries. I’m not sure I buy some of Tay­lor’s argu­ments but it’s a good exer­cise and Fox cer­tain­ly did talk about eco­nom­ics as part of his call for justice.

Hope and Optimism

December 1, 2024

Decem­ber’s Friends Jour­nal is online and looks at “Spir­i­tu­al Opti­mism vs. Spir­i­tu­al Pes­simism.” I wrote the open­ing col­umn this month and explained why I want­ed to see Quak­ers tack­le this. It seems to me that hope and pes­simism are atti­tudes that tran­scend typ­i­cal reli­gious and polit­i­cal divi­sions. Pick a top­ic or dis­sect a social group and you can usu­al­ly find among them peo­ple who are undaunt­ed by the chal­lenges ahead and oth­ers wor­ried to the point of paral­y­sis. Our reac­tions to Covid these past five years have exposed these fault lines, as is our respons­es to the recent pres­i­den­tial elec­tion. I wrote:

Has there ever been an age in human his­to­ry in which we could be pure­ly opti­mistic or pure­ly pes­simistic? Quak­er founder George Fox wrote that his min­istry arose “when all my hopes in [preach­ers and expe­ri­enced peo­ple] were gone, so that I had noth­ing out­ward­ly to help me, nor could tell what to do.” He famous­ly found inspi­ra­tion, guid­ance, and courage in “one, even Christ Jesus,” who could speak to his con­di­tion. What keeps us going today in a world always ready to implode or blossom?

The art of the compromise

November 12, 2024

I very occa­sion­al­ly do a book review for the mag­a­zine. My col­league Gail thought I might be inter­est­ed in this biog­ra­phy of the longest-serving edi­tor of our British coun­ter­part, The Friend, so I reviewed A Friend in Deed: The Life of Hen­ry Stan­ley New­man.

The part of Hen­ry Stan­ley New­man’s life that I found most fas­ci­nat­ing was his generation’s abil­i­ty to bend tech­ni­cal­i­ties almost to the break­ing point in order to main­tain for­mal uni­ty. As a young man, he rebelled against the stodgy and insu­lar Quak­erism of his upbring­ing and found a way to cre­ate a par­al­lel spir­i­tu­al life based on Evan­gel­i­cal prin­ci­ples. In mid­dle life, estab­lished and respect­ed, he faced chal­lenges from a ris­ing young Lib­er­al fac­tion and man­aged to stay engaged enough to keep them with­in the fold of main­stream British Quak­erism. In the Unit­ed States, these same shifts toward first evan­gel­i­cal and then lib­er­al the­olo­gies result­ed in schisms, many of which still divide Friends.

Almost twen­ty years ago I vis­it­ed a small Mid­west­ern U.S. year­ly meet­ing that real­ly felt like a fam­i­ly, both in its bonds and its dys­func­tions. I liked it. One of the most respect­ed mem­bers was gay and at some point in ear­li­er ses­sions he had been nom­i­nat­ed to be the year­ly meet­ing clerk. This was a non-starter for a mem­ber church that was also affil­i­at­ed with an Evan­gel­i­cal year­ly meet­ing. After some back and forth he was was approved as an assis­tant clerk, a solu­tion every­one could live with. Log­i­cal­ly it makes absolute­ly no sense — if gay­ness pre­cludes one from one year­ly meet­ing lead­er­ship posi­tion it should pre­clude them from any. But the year­ly meet­ing want­ed him and found a way to make it work and he cheer­ful­ly accept­ed the log­i­cal irony of the sit­u­a­tion. (The sit­u­a­tion didn’t last and the dual-affiliated meet­ing even­tu­al­ly had to make a choice and dis­af­fil­i­ate from one of its year­ly meetings.)

There’s an impulse toward puri­ty that wouldn’t have allowed these kinds of nego­ti­at­ed com­pro­mis­es. A young New­man, start­ing Evan­gel­i­cal orga­ni­za­tions left and right that were nom­i­nal­ly out­side of Quak­er struc­ture but full of Quak­ers, would have been dis­owned. The Mid­west year­ly meet­ing would have splin­tered over the Lib­er­al’s insis­tence of a clerk sta­tus or the Evan­gel­i­cal’s insis­tence on no sta­tus. Don’t get me wrong, I cer­tain­ly under­stand puri­ty: some­times we need to make a stand. But some­times it’s more impor­tant to be a log­i­cal­ly incon­sis­tent fam­i­ly than to be alone in our cor­rect­ness. Hen­ry Stan­ley Newman’s com­pro­mis­es is an inter­est­ing mod­el for us, still.

Miracles with Diane Allen

November 5, 2024

Crop­well Meet­ing had a nice pro­gram on mir­a­cles last week­end. Diane is local­ly famous for natives past a cer­tain age because of her ubiq­ui­tous pres­ence in Philly TV back in the day. She gave a great talk. Every­one was hushed and atten­tive through­out, with gasps Olof aston­ish­ment at some of the profiles.

Cropwell hosts Halloween family outreach event again

October 30, 2024

My meet­ing host­ed anoth­er Hal­loween event ear­li­er this week. When we did it in 2022 we arranged to have fly­ers dis­trib­uted by the home­own­ers’ asso­ci­a­tion of devel­op­ment behind us but we missed the Octo­ber mail­ing dead­line this time. So a few mem­bers fly­ered in the neigh­bor­hood and it worked! Some­one saw it and shared it on a par­ent chat for the near­by ele­men­tary school. A few further-off peo­ple came because of the Face­book event, which frankly sur­prised me.

A Future Vision of Friends

October 22, 2024

Craig Bar­nett, in his Tran­si­tion Quak­ers blog, talks about the future of Quak­erism in the UK. Here’s a snip­pet but go read the whole thing:

There is like­ly to be an even larg­er num­ber of peo­ple whose most reg­u­lar engage­ment with oth­er Quak­ers is online, per­haps sup­ple­ment­ed by retreats, camps or oth­er in-person events. There will almost cer­tain­ly be a broad range of Quak­er activist groups and net­works focussed on par­tic­u­lar con­cerns such as the cli­mate emer­gency, migra­tion and peace. Along­side this, I antic­i­pate a greater diver­si­ty of forms of Quak­er prac­tice, belong­ing and spir­i­tu­al­i­ty, with most Friends hav­ing a much loos­er con­nec­tion to area meet­ings and Britain Year­ly Meet­ing as a whole. In oth­er words it looks much more like a move­ment than one mono­lith­ic organisation.

I think a lot of this is rel­e­vant to Friends in North Amer­i­ca and not only because of some shared cul­ture. For bet­ter or worse, the inter­net is decou­pling spir­i­tu­al­i­ty from geog­ra­phy. Blogs and mag­a­zines, pod­casts and YouTube chan­nels are all acces­si­ble from any­where. Covid taught us all how to use Zoom and the con­tin­ued avail­abil­i­ty of online wor­ship have led iso­lat­ed Friends (or Friends frus­trat­ed by local, in-person options) to wor­ship from anywhere.

I’m intrigued by Craig’s anal­o­gy to the orga­ni­za­tion and of west­ern Bud­dhism though I think we still need to focus on local wor­ship. Part­ly because of the inter­net, peo­ple are seek­ing in-person, live com­mu­ni­ties but we have to be ready to receive them. Craig talks about the need to pro­vide reli­gious edu­ca­tion — to be able to answer what we believe — and sup­port for fam­i­lies and children.