Quakerquaker housekeeping

August 16, 2023

Update on the migra­tion: The site is on the move. I’ve closed the Ning account which has host­ed it for some­thing like 15 years and the domain is chang­ing reg­is­trars. I have an archive of the old site, which should be avail­able soon (my goal is that old links will auto­mat­i­cal­ly bring peo­ple to the archived page). 

What was a time when you rebelled and why?

August 15, 2023

The August Quak­ers Today pod­cast dropped Tues­day morn­ing. It’s a nice mix, with an inter­view with Quak­er hunter Tim­o­thy Tarkel­ly, an excerpt from Erin Wilson’s recent Quak­er­S­peak on LGBTQ inclu­sion, and an inter­view with “Jol­lyQuak­er” Mark Russ, who’s build­ing great buzz for his new book, Quak­er Shaped Chris­tian­i­ty (check out the FJ review by William Shet­ter).

Outreach in the real world

August 15, 2023

A bit of excite­ment at my meet­ing, Crop­well in Marl­ton, N.J.: we’ve got new signs! Not the most excit­ing news for out­siders but it’s good to have them. I’m espe­cial­ly glad that we final­ly have them in the less-used south­ern entrance to the dri­ve­way, as it’s where car map­ping sys­tems send vis­i­tors who type in our for­mal address. It’s nev­er been well marked and feels like the pri­vate dri­ve­way of the adjoin­ing house (our old school building). 

What is and isn’t Quaker, hunting edition

August 14, 2023

On the face of it, it may be kind of weird for a veg­an like me to like an arti­cle about hunt­ing (much less pub­lish a recipe for squir­rel quiche) but any­one who brings in Thomas Clark­son to talk about Quak­er cul­tur­al val­ues is some­one I’ll lis­ten to.

[Clark­son’s] con­tem­po­raries were blind­ed by tra­di­tion and nev­er stopped to ask, “how far are they allow­able?” amidst con­cerns of human con­duct. Even the phras­ing “how far are they allow­able” sug­gests a lim­it. Per­haps hunt­ing is an allow­able and accept­able way of life up to a cer­tain point: that point being need­less vio­lence and danger.

The “loudmouth New York Quaker Jew” who’s a second-gen Hiroshima survivor

August 8, 2023

A sur­pris­ing twist in this sto­ry: Leslie Sus­san’s father was a U.S. film­mak­er who blamed his fatal ill­ness on the atom bombs that fell on Hiroshi­ma and Nagasa­ki. I like her attitude:

Being Quak­er hasn’t made me any less Jew­ish. Ever since I was a young teen, basi­cal­ly, my atti­tude toward being Jew­ish has been that I will nev­er argue with a Jew who says I’m not Jew­ish and I will nev­er deny to a goy that I’m Jewish.

The FGC Gathering today and tomorrow

August 6, 2023

A nice write-up about the Friends Gen­er­al Con­fer­ence Gath­er­ing in Friends Jour­nal by this year’s coor­di­na­tor, Liz Dykes. The Gath­er­ing has been the week-long “sum­mer camp for Lib­er­al Quak­ers” for over a cen­tu­ry but its trend lines have grown wor­ri­some. Even before COVID, atten­dance has been steadi­ly drop­ping. This year Liz reports that only 540 peo­ple came, which is a good num­ber con­sid­er­ing it was at a West Coast loca­tion, far from the mass of U.S. Quak­ers. But it’s a far cry from the high of the 2001 Gath­er­ing’s 1,920 atten­dees (includ­ing me and my then-fiancee, who had met at the pre­vi­ous Gathering). 

FGC has been watch­ing the trend lines, of course, and writ­ing up reports. COVID turned every­thing upside down for a few years. But final­ly there’s some big changes. Next year’s Gath­er­ing will be at Haver­ford Col­lege right out­side Philly, which puts it with­in a local train ride of a whole lot of Quak­ers. There was a time when prox­im­i­ty alone would have nixed the loca­tion, as it might have attract­ed too many Friends (and com­pete with Philadel­phia Year­ly Meet­ing’s annu­al ses­sions, which have become Gathering-like in recent decades), but times are a’chang­ing. I’m pleas­ant­ly sur­prised that a his­tor­i­cal­ly Quak­er school like Haver­ford is host, as I would have thought cost and size would be a prob­lem, but I’m glad for it. Future Gath­er­ings will be every oth­er year, which also seems like a good exper­i­ment: being a bit more rare, it can be a treat to go. 

I’m glad changes are final­ly being tried and wish FGC all the best. The Gath­er­ing has had an impor­tant role in Quak­er life — and not just for the meets-cute of future couples.

Spirit-led following is the key to Spirit-led leadership

July 3, 2023

From Steven Dale Davi­son:

Because lead­er­ship is a spir­i­tu­al prac­tice, its exer­cise needs spir­i­tu­al sup­port from the com­mu­ni­ty. To enable good lead­ers, we need reli­gious edu­ca­tion in the faith and prac­tice of lis­ten­ing and min­istry. We need to view proac­tive nur­ture of vocal min­istry as the pri­ma­ry path­way of bring­ing forth lead­ers in our meet­ings. Lead­er­ship needs a robust infra­struc­ture for the care of lead­ings and to sup­port dis­cern­ment and ministry.

Because we humans are the vehi­cle for the lead­er­ship of the Spir­it, and because most of us are not by nature very good at this spir­i­tu­al­i­ty, either as lead­ers or as fol­low­ers, we have to work at it. We have to learn it, and there­fore, we have to teach and mod­el it.

I’ve been feel­ing as if my own spir­i­tu­al prac­tice isn’t as cen­tered as I’d like. I want to make more time for spir­i­tu­al read­ing, includ­ing the Bible, dur­ing the week.