Windy Cooler is back with the second of a multipart series based on interviews with public Friends, this installment called “The Concerns of Public Ministry” (see my take on part one). This one is about the power dynamics that public ministers face in institutional Quakerism. Here’s one quote:
Resentment about power imbalances and the suppression of acknowledging power imbalances is at the heart of many public ministers’ call to right relationship, in fact: “What I thought was wrong with me was that I have leadership potential. Being wrong, it turned out, was just leadership abilities. Nothing was wrong with me. “
This is a brave topic to cover and I’m glad Windy’s doing it.
Notably absent is much talk about faith in this. Where’s this call to leadership coming? What is it in service to? I suspect that if you asked this question of rising leaders in Liberal Friends you’d get all sorts of answers. That’s not terribly surprising. In theologically diverse meetings secularized language is the lingua franca. The Hicksite Quaker movement was born in large part as a critique of power and this remains an easy conceptualization to turn to. I myself often look at Quaker history and current dynamics in a sociological way; it’s not a wrong framework, just incomplete if left unmoored.
Personally I don’t think I could have made it through Friends this long without trusting in the inward Christ and simultaneously deepening my life in traditional Quaker theology. It’s helpful context to read the journals of old ministers. The challenges they faced aren’t always so very different from those of the present day. George Fox was serially disappointed and betrayed by the ministers of his time until he had a vision and realized that this disappointment was literally the lesson he was being taught. From one of the most famous passages in his Journal:
I saw there was none among them all that could speak to my condition. And when all my hopes in them and in all men were gone, so that I had nothing outwardly to help me, nor could tell what to do, then, oh then, I heard a voice which said, “There is one, even Christ Jesus, that can speak to thy condition,” and when I heard it my heart did leap for joy. Then the Lord did let me see why there was none upon the earth that could speak to my condition, namely, that I might give him all the glory; for all are concluded under sin, and shut up in unbelief as I had been, that Jesus Christ might have the pre-eminence who enlightens, and gives grace, and faith, and power. Thus, when God doth work who shall let [i.e. hinder] it? And this I knew experimentally.
Of course we shouldn’t romanticize grief and disappointment. Sometimes a soul-crushing disappointment is a lesson but sometimes its just people doing shitty things. The old adage “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” overlooks the people left as roadkill in the first place. I talked about the “Lost Quaker Generation” a lot twenty years ago; it remains an open question if some of the ones who left were the smarter ones.1
Also in my news feed is a post from Brian Drayton, “New wine, new wineskins.” Brian uses very Christian language and is talking about current wars in the world, but it’s possible to read much of this as a take on public ministry:
Thus, our response in our living and thinking to the conditions of today, leavened with His life within us, must be put in vessels that not only contain the new life, but enable it to keep working and gaining in virtue, in active power. These are vessels of thought, of collaboration, of priorities or valuation, of hope and intention, of method and of celebration.
- Speaking of the ones who have left, one of the most popular search terms bringing people to the Friends Journal website every month is “Why I left Quakers.” They find a 2002 article from Jack Powelson and the still-poignant Quakerism Left Me from the ever-awesome Betsy Blake in 2013. We’ve generally shied away from “I’m leaving” manifestos but maybe we should entertain some. Check our submissions page or drop me an email if you feel an article like this welling up.
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