Brent Bill’s stories of redemption

November 13, 2023

Brent Bil­l’s fic­tion is fea­tured this week over at Friends Jour­nal. A Trip to Ami­ty revolves around a grumpy min­is­ter whose sur­prise come­up­pance fea­tures a les­son in for­give­ness and the pow­er of laugh­ter. Brent and I talked about the sto­ry, the first in his new col­lec­tion, “Ami­ty: Sto­ries from the Heart­land,” in this week’s FJ Author Chat. You can buy the book at Quaker­books of FGC or from Bren­t’s own web­site.

Moving on, Keeping On

November 12, 2023

Crop­well meet­ing’s clerk decid­ed to step down this month (he’s turn­ing 88 and thought it a good time!). We had a nice cel­e­bra­tion for him on Sun­day. A few years ago the meet­ing had dwin­dled down to two reg­u­lar mem­bers; on some Sun­days, only one of them would show. He assem­bled a group to help bring it back from the brink of being laid down with a sucess­ful open house in 2021 and since then we’ve had six new mem­bers join. 

We had a whole process planned to select a new clerk but it turned out that I was the only one who said I’d con­sid­er the role (maybe not so uncom­mon a phe­nom­e­non in small meet­ings?). I’ve joked that I’ll have it back down to two mem­bers by the end of next year, but in all seri­ous­ness I’m hop­ing we’re blessed with keep­ing the momen­tum going. 

Mid-November Links

November 11, 2023

The Novem­ber Quak­ers Today pod­cast dropped this week, ask­ing How do you process mem­o­ries, expe­ri­ences and feel­ings? It includes inter­views with Rashid Dar­d­en and Vic­ki Winslow and looks at the Quak­er influ­ences of Vir­ginia Woolf.

This web­page will dutchi­fy any location’s Google Street View, slim­ming lanes and adding green­ery and bike paths. Yes, this every­where please. Via Kot­tke.

Mysterious promptings

November 9, 2023

I must admit I’m a suck­er for a cer­tain kind of Quak­er sto­ry in which a Friend faith­ful­ly fol­lows mys­te­ri­ous prompt­ings that turn out to be life-changing. It might have been an old Bill Taber book where I read about the Quak­er min­is­ter who one day shout­ed to stop the car­riage while pass­ing a ran­dom house because she knew—knew!— that its inhab­i­tants need­ed spir­i­tu­al help (read­er, they did!). I guess it’s not unlike the uncan­ny expe­ri­ence of being about to rise to give min­istry when the per­son next to you stands and gives the same mes­sage you were about to deliv­er—whoa! The hair on the back of my neck always stands up to these stories.

This week I was read­ing the sto­ries of Paul S. Lip­pen­cott, Jr., a record­ed min­is­ter of my own Crop­well Meet­ing who lived from 1882 to 1968. I’m try­ing to under­stand the char­ac­ter of the meet­ing, and our out­go­ing clerk has told sto­ries of being a kid and lis­ten­ing to Paul’s ser­mons back in the 1960s. Some­one had got­ten an ear­ly tape recorder to col­lect Paul’s tales and pub­lished the some­what ram­bling account as Answered Prayers, a book I found at Vin­tage Quak­er Books.

The best sto­ry is the lead one. As a young man of around 30, Paul was retired in bed read­ing reli­gious books when he felt a prompt (queue ethe­r­i­al music). “After a short peri­od of prayer it became very clear to me that I should go out and gear up the horse.” Prompts came to him one after anoth­er: dri­ve west down the road a cou­ple of miles to the next town, and then: buy non-perishable gro­ceries at the store that was still open. All this was done in faith: “Until that time I had no idea where I was going to take this food,” he writes. Then a final prompt as he remem­bered “an old col­ored lady named Mar­garet Wor­thing­ton” who “lived in a cab­in by her­self” a half-mile away. He had nev­er met her but felt led to vis­it on that dark night. “I pulled up at the lit­tle one room cab­in where there was a light through the win­dow, and as I went to the door, I heard her voice pray­ing for help and food. I was there under unusu­al cir­cum­stances to answer the fer­vent prayers of a believ­ing soul.”

Yowsa!

If you want the whole sto­ry of the mys­te­ri­ous food run, it’s on the Crop­well web­site accom­pa­ny­ing a talk on the long and entwined rela­tion­ships between the meet­ing and local Black fam­i­lies. “Aunt Mar­garet” had a spe­cial tal­ent for hav­ing her prayers answered and Paul’s book has more sto­ries about her.

Paul tells oth­er sto­ries about fol­low­ing mys­te­ri­ous prompts. In one, he feels led to take a longer route back to his office after lunch. It’s the Depres­sion and on this dif­fer­ent path he runs into an old acquain­tance, now out of work and “in very try­ing con­di­tion.” He’s feel­ing bro­ken and final­ly admits to Paul that he’s con­sid­er­ing tak­ing his own life. They pray togeth­er and hope is restored. As Paul writes “There was some rea­son for me to make that short detour, even on a morn­ing when I was pressed for time. I am thank­ful that the Lord helped me to be able and alert to lis­ten to that Still, Small Voice.”

This is of course an echo of the para­ble of the Good Sama­ratan. Peo­ple of high stand­ing walked by the injured trav­el­er but it was the low­ly Sama­ratan who lis­tened and heard the prompt and the prayer, stopped their busy life, and aid­ed the trav­el­er. Jesus told the sto­ry to illus­trate the query “who is my neigh­bor.” I’m not sure I have the best ear for these kinds of prayers hang­ing out there but I’d like to try to lis­ten more.


If you’re in South Jer­sey or Philly and want to hear more Crop­well sto­ries, you’re invit­ed to vis­it this Sun­day to hon­or our out­go­ing clerk, Earl Evens. A few years ago Crop­well was down to two attend­ing mem­bers and close to being laid down when a small group led by Earl felt a prompt to try to rebuild the com­mu­ni­ty. Ear­l’s sto­ries of old Crop­well, the way he’s played host to the rebirthed com­mu­ni­ty, and his gen­tle opin­ions on Quak­er wor­ship have helped set the spir­i­tu­al DNA of our expand­ing group (five new mem­bers last year and anoth­er applied this week). I’m the incom­ing clerk and omg, these are quite the shoes to fill.

Mid-early November Links

November 9, 2023

You want some mag­ic? I’d been curi­ous about this five-minute baguette recipe since it made the social media rounds a few weeks ago and have made it twice in the last week. It real­ly is super quick to mix and the results are heav­en­ly: crispy on the out­side and chewy on the inside. Bakery-quality bread from a nor­mal kitchen oven with four ingre­di­ents and almost no work. 

RIP Tum­blr, more or less. Such a battered-about social net­work, even Automat­tic could­n’t bring back the mag­ic. I had­n’t know their plans to fed­er­ate Tum­blr with Mastodon were dropped with­in 48 hours of the first announce­ment. Via Kot­tke.

New York Year­ly Meet­ing’s Spark mag­a­zine has an issue on the peace tes­ti­mo­ny. I need to work my way through but Nadine Hoover’s “Peace is Pos­si­ble,” Joseph Ole­jak’s “Peace Wit­ness Fatigue,” and Don Bad­g­ley’s “Peace Be with You” look good. Let me know in the com­ments if you rec­om­mend others. 

Fic­tion month con­tin­ues at Friends Jour­nal, and this week we have two gems: Michael Soi­ka gives a har­row­ing tale of the life of a East­ern Euro­pean coal-mining fam­i­ly in West Vir­ginia on the brink of ruin (the AFSC cameo is legit). A mod­ern Friend appears in Vic­ki Winslow’s ten­der sto­ry of a Quak­er min­is­ter work­ing through grief and get­ting an unex­pect­ed les­son in open doors and ready food.

Also, do you have some­thing to say about Quak­er prayer and heal­ing? Sub­mis­sions are open for the March Friends Jour­nal (due Dec. 18). Please for­ward this link to any­one who might be interested.

Quaker fiction returns to Friends Journal

November 1, 2023

The third annu­al fic­tion issue is avail­able on the mag­a­zine’s web­site. From my introduction:

I remem­ber a friend once telling me if you do some­thing once, it’s a weird thing you do. Do it again, it’s a trend. Do it three times and it’s a tra­di­tion every­one expects you to repeat till the end of time. This is Friends Jour­nal’s third Novem­ber fic­tion issue in a row. I guess this is a thing we do now.

It’s not imme­di­ate­ly obvi­ous that we should be in this game. Quak­ers have had tes­ti­monies against read­ing made-up sto­ries. They’re a waste of time. We’re “Friends of the Truth” after all, a con­cept tak­en quite lit­er­al­ly and some­times to extremes by ear­ly Quak­ers. Colo­nial Penn­syl­va­nia Quak­ers half-heartedly con­duct­ed a witch tri­al (pop­u­lar leg­end has it that after a defen­dant admit­ted to fly­ing on broom­sticks, William Penn dis­missed the case with the argu­ment that he knew “no law what­ev­er against it.”). A cen­tu­ry lat­er, abo­li­tion­ist trav­el­ing min­is­ter John Wool­man tried to shut down a mag­ic show in his home town of Mount Hol­ly, N.J., for encour­ag­ing superstitions.

But some­times fic­tion reveals deep­er truths that sim­ple report­ing can’t touch. Good sto­ry­telling can pro­duce pow­er­ful para­bles, sim­ple sto­ries that stay with us and guide us. And with a touch of mag­ic, it can hint at the mys­ter­ies of worship.

From The Truth of Untruth, my intro­duc­tion to the Novem­ber 2023 issue.

The first fea­tured short sto­ry is Annalee Flower Horne’s Refuse All Their Col­ors, an alter­na­tive his­to­ry of 1777 Val­ley Forge in which the Friends liv­ing in the area have a lit­tle extra skillset. Once you’ve read it you can watch my inter­view with Annalee, which I found par­tic­u­lar­ly fas­ci­nat­ing. Annalee has made a deep dive into the his­tor­i­cal record of the Friends com­mu­ni­ty in Val­ley Forge and is quite con­fi­dent that the only made-up part of the sto­ry is the fan­ta­sy ele­ments and the imme­di­ate dialogue.

Annalee Flower Horne dis­cuss­es their new short sto­ry “Refuse All Their Col­ors,” set in 1777 dur­ing the Rev­o­lu­tion­ary War. The sto­ry explores Quak­ers’ per­spec­tives on mag­ic through the lens of alter­nate history.

Early November Links

October 31, 2023

Craig Bar­nett break­ing down the sup­posed dichoto­my between activist and mys­ti­cal Friends: “There is no stan­dard tem­plate for a ‘good Quak­er’ or a moral or spir­i­tu­al per­son. Each of us has to dis­cov­er our own gifts and our own con­tri­bu­tion to the world’s needs, accord­ing to the inward guid­ance that is avail­able to us.”

Jesus and indi­vid­u­al­ism is the top­ic of lat­est ser­mon from Mic­ah Bales. “But the good news is not that we are all free to be indi­vid­u­als… The gospel is that we are drawn into an organ­ic com­mu­ni­ty of dis­ci­ples, of chil­dren of God.”

Johan Mau­r­er weighs the cost of trav­el. In-person gath­er­ings can be life chang­ing but can we find alter­na­tives that don’t cre­ate so much carbon?

In Friends Jour­nal, staff writer Sharlee DiMenichi reports on Quak­er reac­tions to the Israel Defense Forces – Hamas War. A view­point opin­ion by Steve Chase calls for a cease­fire and out­lines work by Jew­ish and Quak­er peace groups.

The Source of Quaker Authority

October 26, 2023

In a recent Red­dit thread, an ex-Catholic inter­est­ed in Friends asked whether the Quak­er­S­peak video “9 Core Quak­er Beliefs” was rep­re­sen­ta­tive of Friends. Long­time Philadel­phia Friends might rec­og­nize that title as part of Arthur Larrabee’s long­time work to com­pile some agreed-upon list of Quak­er beliefs that we can use in out­reach and messaging.

But to some­one with­out con­text, he’s just some schmoe on YouTube. 

Quak­erism is well-known for being creed­less. It’s easy to argue that it’s any­thing you want it to be. Plen­ty of peo­ple are drawn more to our com­mu­ni­ty than to the his­toric beliefs of Friends. At one point, not that long ago even, one could point to Robert Bar­clay’s Apol­o­gy as a the­o­log­i­cal state­ment accept­ed by most Friends. No longer. Unpro­grammed Friends have large­ly giv­en up even on the elders who once tried to main­tain ortho­doxy (some­times over­ly so and often to ill effect). Nowa­days “What do Quak­ers Believe?” eas­i­ly morphs into “What Do I Believe?”

In the Lib­er­al U.S. Quak­er world it used to be that you could legit­imize some hith­er­to out­sider belief by start­ing a web­site, pre­sent­ing it as a work­shop at a few suc­ces­sive FGC Gath­er­ings, and get­ting an arti­cle pub­lished in Friends Jour­nal. Nowa­days a pop­u­lar YouTu­ber like Jes­si­ca Kellgren-Fozard will get much more reach than any insti­tu­tion­al out­let: her 2018 video Oh God… Let’s Talk About My Reli­gion has got­ten 530k views and 3,885 com­ments. Is she the most learned rep­re­sen­ta­tive of Quak­erism? A record­ed min­is­ter in her year­ly meet­ing? Did she vet her views with her meet­ing before post­ing the video, as Friends used to have to vet books pre-publication? No, no, and no, but she’s done a lot to get us out there in front of seek­ers and is, de fac­to, a rec­og­nized author­i­ty on Friends to hun­dreds of thou­sands of people.

Art Larrabee, of the Quak­er­S­peak video (cur­rent­ly at 241k views for those keep­ing score), is an inter­est­ing coun­ter­point. He’s held a vari­ety of lead­er­ship posi­tions among Philadel­phia Friends and has been a sought-after work­shop leader. Art start­ed his list of core beliefs while he was the chief exec­u­tive of Philadel­phia Year­ly Meet­ing. In this role, he was often called on to be a spokesper­son for Lib­er­al Friends. He has writ­ten about the back­ground of this list:

Sev­er­al years ago, way opened for me to share with PYM’s Advi­so­ry Com­mit­tee a life-long frus­tra­tion that I could not artic­u­late the core beliefs of our faith com­mu­ni­ty with any con­fi­dence that what I might say would be shared by oth­ers. At the time, I was feel­ing let down by my faith com­mu­ni­ty and that our fail­ure to name col­lec­tive­ly held, core beliefs con­tributed to a loss of ener­gy among us. I also felt that the absence of a state­ment of core beliefs inhib­it­ed our abil­i­ty to eas­i­ly and effec­tive­ly com­mu­ni­cate to oth­ers about our Quak­er faith. In my pro­fes­sion­al life before becom­ing Gen­er­al Sec­re­tary, I some­times found myself want­i­ng to invite friends in law and busi­ness to come to meet­ing for wor­ship but I could nev­er quite fig­ure out what I could say with any con­fi­dence when asked, “What do Quak­ers believe?” What was I invit­ing them to? Yes, I could try to say what I believed, but I could not tell them what we believed as a com­mu­ni­ty. I want­ed some­thing I could hand to those I thought might be inter­est­ed and say, “This is what’s at the core of our faith. There is more to Quak­erism than this, but this is a place to begin.”

Advi­so­ry Com­mit­tee invit­ed me to try my hand at draft­ing such a state­ment and on sev­er­al occa­sions they have seen pri­or ver­sions of what I am pre­sent­ing today. I have shared ear­li­er ver­sions of this work with two quar­ter­ly meet­ings, three or four month­ly meet­ings, the res­i­dents of a retire­ment com­mu­ni­ty and Inter­im Meet­ing. With each pre­sen­ta­tion, sug­ges­tions have been made which have found their way into the document.

The results in a very thought­ful, threshed-out list. It might be the most care­ful dis­til­la­tion since Howard Brin­ton dashed out Friends for 300 Years in 1952. And yet: as far as I know, the nine beliefs list was nev­er for­mal­ly adopt­ed by any Quak­er body. Years lat­er, it’s still only a list of what Art Larrabee believes oth­er Friends believe. His author­i­ty is the respect he has, which is real­ly not all that dif­fer­ent than the source of author­i­ty for a pop­u­lar YouTu­ber. In some future revi­sion of Faith and Prac­tice both Larrabee and Kellgren-Fozard is sure to be quot­ed in the extracts sec­tion. But even there, their words will be pre­sent­ed as inter­est­ing view­points, not canon­i­cal statements.

It’s a hell of a way to run a reli­gion, per­haps, but it’s a fas­ci­nat­ing cul­ture we’ve devel­oped to com­pen­sate for our rejec­tion of creeds.