The Novem­ber issue of Friends Jour­nal is online and in the mail and it’s an excit­ing one: our sec­ond annu­al fic­tion issue. Last year’s issue was more nar­row­ly focused on sci-fi and spec­u­la­tive fic­tion but this one cov­ers all gen­res of fiction.

Some of the arti­cles are his­tor­i­cal fic­tion, two look at Quak­er process and spir­i­tu­al­i­ty, and there’s a semi-futuristic bit of satire. We can real­ly be a cre­ative bunch.

Fiction 

Novem­ber 2022

Friends Journal 

It is the sea­son of the pod­cast in Quak­er­land. In the last few weeks I’ve shared Pen­dle Hill’s new pod­cast and the new one from Irish Friends and hint­ed more were on the way.

One of those is a new pod­cast from Friends Jour­nal called Quak­ers Today. Pro­duced by the most excel­lent Peter­son Toscano, it’s a month­ly pod­cast that will fea­ture a mix of Friends Jour­nal arti­cles and Quak­er­S­peak inter­views — and what­ev­er else we put in there. Peter­son­’s been doing pod­casts since for­ev­er ago (he start­ed back when we would describe our infor­mal blog net­works as “the Quak­er Blo­gos­phere” with no hint of irony) and he brings a great ener­gy to the show. It’s fun watch­ing Friends Jour­nal blos­som in this new medium.

Those with long mem­o­ries will remem­ber that Friends Jour­nal had a pod­cast series that ran for three years start­ing in 2013, con­sist­ing of authors read­ing their sto­ries and the audio to our YouTube author chats. It was fun (I loved the poet­ry read­ings like this one), but it nev­er got many lis­ten­ers and we final­ly end­ed it in 2016 to give more focus to our core work.

It’s nice to be back! I’ve heard the first draft of the first issue and Peter­son­’s done a great job with it. You can lis­ten to the pro­mo below and find it wher­ev­er you get your pod­cast fix.

In the Octo­ber issue, fre­quent Friends Jour­nal con­trib­u­tor Carl Blu­men­thal inter­views Nic­hole Net­tle­ton, of New York Year­ly Meet­ing’s Dif­fer­ent Abled Friends and Allies (DAFA). Prob­a­bly my favorite part is when Nic­hole tells the sto­ry of look­ing for sup­port and con­tact­ing DAFA only to real­ize is was­n’t active any­more. Unde­terred, she took mat­ters into her own hands:

Since I saw it as a major need and I had a lot of expe­ri­ence with dis­abil­i­ties, I thought I could help by set­ting up week­ly Zoom meet­ings.… We start­ed about a year ago, and though I don’t know much about facil­i­tat­ing or the tech­nol­o­gy involved, I’m learn­ing as I go. Some­times you just have to start things when the need is there. You can’t be afraid that you don’t know enough or think you’re good enough to lead.

Carl has been work­ing on issues of phys­i­cal dis­abil­i­ties and men­tal health for decades and he’s been a friend­ly advo­cate to get us to pub­lish more on the sub­ject. Last year he wrote the land­mark Quak­ers and Men­tal Health­care for us. I cer­tain­ly learned a lot about Quak­er involve­ment in the field. This after­noon I inter­viewed Carl for our author chat YouTube series.

Speak­ing of FAQs that I hope will attract search engine queries for quite some time, Emi­ly Provance has been on fire with a series she calls “answers for a small‑f friend,” in which she — well, answers a lot of ques­tions peo­ple might have. Many of these are just as use­ful for us large‑F Friends and they’re all worth check­ing out.

This week’s is “Is there any­thing all Quak­ers have in com­mon?” She gets around the sometimes-confoundingly diverse set of opin­ions among Friends by find­ing com­mon­al­i­ties that “near­ly all Friends” would agree with. It’s a good way to proceed.

The most antic­i­pat­ed new release this Fri­day ¹ is a new video from Quak­er­S­peak: What to Expect at a Quak­er Memo­r­i­al Ser­vice.

These ensem­ble Quak­er­S­peaks are like FAQs sent out to the search engines. They’re edu­ca­tion­al to watch when they come out: I sit there imag­in­ing what I would be say­ing if the cam­era was on me. But the real ben­e­fit is months and years from now when non-Quaker who has nev­er walked into a meet­ing­house is faced with hav­ing to attend a memo­r­i­al ser­vice for a beloved neigh­bor, or rel­a­tive, or co-worker. They will nat­u­ral­ly turn to their favorite search engine and find this video on YouTube. Six and half min­utes lat­er they’ll know what they’re get­ting into. Maybe they’ll stick around and click on relat­ed videos like “What to Expect in Quak­er Meet­ing for Wor­ship.”

I’m biased, cer­tain­ly, but I think Friends do wed­dings and funer­als par­tic­u­lar­ly well. Many peo­ple first expe­ri­ence Friends through these ser­vice. I know I always leave know­ing so much more about some­one who I assumed I already knew;; I some­times feel a pang of regret at not hav­ing tak­en the time to dis­cov­er their oth­er inter­ests while they were alive.

What to Expect at a Quak­er Memo­r­i­al Service