Gregory Gets Baptized

February 2, 2011

Depend­ing on your the­o­log­i­cal ten­den­cies, Gre­go­ry was bap­tized or sprin­kled this past week­end. It was a very mov­ing cer­e­mo­ny, though an emer­gency trip to the pot­ty for the 4yo meant I missed the best part. Appar­ent­ly the priest raised him over the altar and made the sign of cross with him. This is at St Nicholas’ Ukrain­ian Catholic Church in Mil­lville NJ. We all went across the street to a Pol­ka dance after­wards and then had some cake and snacks at the lib­er­at­ed St Mary’s in Malaga.

Godparents holding the baby

And for new read­ers, I long ago explained why the Quak­er Ranter’s kid was get­ting bap­tized. Sor­ry for the weird for­mat­ting, I haven’t cleaned up all the back articles.

Sightings: Quaker Schools, Isolated Friends and the Capitalist Spirit

January 29, 2011

  • Ah, Friends schools — where Protes­tants teach Jews how to be Quak­ers.  It’s a beau­ti­ful thing… I attend­ed a Quak­er school myself for a cou­ple of years, and it pret­ty well cured me of any inter­est in Quak­erism.  I per­son­al­ly don’t believe that you can improve reli­gion by throw­ing out all the art, music, and rit­u­al… The Quak­er meet­ing, which is a lot of silence bro­ken by the mus­ings of the pompous,  is a prac­tice I can do without.

    tags: quak­er quak​er​.edu​ca​tion quak​er​.com​mu​ni​ty

  • I’m still learn­ing to trust the heal­ing pow­er of my own words. Remem­ber­ing I’m loved takes reg­u­lar reminders. How often I slip back into wor­ries about whether I’m doing enough, pre­oc­cu­pied with con­cern I’ll be judged or crit­i­cized or com­pared to oth­ers. I’m grate­ful Marge has heed­ed her call to min­is­ter­ing with words and for shar­ing her own sto­ry of “being bro­ken open by God’s love.

    tags: quak­er quaker.books quaker.ministry quaker.seattle

  • I have con­tem­plat­ed OYM’s Queries and Advices reg­u­lar­ly as part of my own spir­i­tu­al prac­tice for a num­ber of years. Over time, I felt that it would be good to re-work them slight­ly to empha­size the chal­lenges that I face as an iso­lat­ed Friend and to leave aside sec­tions that don’t apply to my life as a Friend with­out a meet­ing for a spir­i­tu­al home.

    tags: quak­er quaker.seekers quaker.conservative quaker.ohioym quaker.mountain

  • When you can­not achieve grace through sacra­ments, good works or con­fes­sion, the only proof of grace is a way of life that is unmis­tak­ably dif­fer­ent from that of oth­ers. This requires a cer­tain with­draw­al from the world. It requires the indi­vid­ual to super­vise her own state of grace in her con­duct — that is, it per­me­ates the life with asceti­cism, forc­ing the “ratio­nal­iza­tion of con­duct with­in the world for the sake of the world beyond,” as Weber put it.

    tags: quak­er quaker.witness

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Discover Thyself / Earlham College

January 7, 2011

Discover Thyself featuring the Discern-o-Matic QuizDis­cov­er Thy­self is a “dis­cern­ment” site for Quak­er teens. Spon­sored by Earl­ham Col­lege, it fea­tures resources, videos and the all-new “Discer-o-Matic Quiz.” 

The design is all orig­i­nal. We went through six rounds of the con­cept design mock­ups made up on Adobe Fire­works. Because the site is built on Word­Press used as a CMS, Earl­ham Col­lege staff was able to add and arrange con­tent even before the design cod­ing began. The site uses the excel­lent The­mat­ic theme, a blank tem­plate that allows for quite sophis­ti­cat­ed designs using Action Hooks and com­plete CSS markup.

The most excit­ing ele­ment of the site is the “Discern-o-Matic” quiz, which takes users through a series of ques­tions. At the end the ques­tions are reor­ga­nized and pre­sent­ed to the user to help them under­stand what it is they want to do. The quiz is pow­ered using the open-source LimeSur­vey. Results are out­putted via a cus­tom PHP script that polls the LimeSur­vey data­base and out­puts in a nicely-worded and for­mat­ted Word­Press results page. The tem­plates for Lime Sur­vey were altered to mim­ick the look of the rest of the site; the aver­age user won’t notice the pass-off from Word­Press to Lime Sur­vey and back to WordPress.

In hopes the quiz might go viral, indi­vid­ual results are saved on a unique URL. Users are invit­ed to share their results page via Facebook.

Vis­it Site: http://​www​.dis​cover​thy​self​.org

Introducing Gregory Kelley Heiland

January 5, 2011

Bothering babies to make them make cute faces is fun!

On Tues­day, Dec 28 my love­ly wife Julie gave birth to our third son. After some dither­ing back and forth (we’re method­i­cal about baby names) we picked Gre­go­ry. Every­one is hap­py and healthy. Vital stats: 20 inch­es, 7 pounds 9 oz. The broth­ers are adjust­ing well, though Theo’s first response to my phone call telling him it was a boy was “oh no, anoth­er one of those.”

Francis is now also a big brother! Proud brother

That’s 5yo Fran­cis (aka “lit­tle big broth­er”) and 7yo Theo (“big big broth­er”) meet­ing their new sib­ling at the hos­pi­tal. More pics in the Gre­go­ry! and Gre­go­ry in the Hos­pi­tal sets on Flickr.

As you can see, we’ve basi­cal­ly bred triplets spaced over three years apart. As fur­ther evi­dence, here’s Theo and Fran­cis in their first pics (links to their announce­ment posts):
blank Brotherly love

As I men­tioned, we’re method­i­cal about names. When we were faced with Baby #2 I put togeth­er the “Fall­en Baby Names Chart” – clas­sic names that had fall­en out of trendy use. It’s based on the cur­rent rank­ing of the top names of 1900. blank“Gre­go­ry” does­n’t appear on our chart because it was almost unused until a sud­den appear­ance in the mid-1940s (see chart, right). Yes, that would be the time when a hand­some young actor named Gre­go­ry Peck became famous. It peaked in 1962, the year of Peck­’s Acad­e­my Award for To Kill a Mock­ing­bird and has been drop­ping rapid­ly ever since. Last year less than one in a thou­sand new­born boys were Gre­go­ry’s. While we rec­og­nize Peck­’s influ­ence in the name’s Twen­ti­eth Cen­tu­ry pop­u­lar­i­ty, Julie is think­ing more of Gre­go­ry of Nys­sa [edit­ed, I orig­i­nal­ly linked to anoth­er ear­ly Gre­go­ry]. Peck­’s par­ents were Catholic (pater­nal rel­a­tives helped lead the Irish East­er Ris­ing) and were pre­sum­ably think­ing of the Catholic saint when they gave him Gre­go­ry for a mid­dle name (he dropped his first name Eldred for the movies).